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Kim Cox

My Home Birth Experiences

May 10, 2016 By Kim Cox

Kim Cox and her three kids

I am not fond of labels, so I hesitate to write about this, as I don’t want you to think I am talking about this because I am on a mission to change the birthing world we live in. I know that my choice to home birth my children was for me and not against […]

Filed Under: Unconventional Parenting Tagged With: birth stories, home birth, home birth experience, home birth experiences, home birth stories, home birthing experience, home birthing experiences, homebirth

Does the Water Go All the Way Around the Island?

May 3, 2016 By Kim Cox

think left and think right Dr. Seuss quote

No, this isn’t a question for “Are You Smarter Than a 5th Grader,” but rather a question asked to my aunt by another adult (many other adults). My lovely aunt spent nearly 30 years as a bartender in Key West. I am grateful that I have had the privilege of spending long periods of time […]

Filed Under: Communication Tagged With: chat with strangers, communication, communication skills, connect with people, connect with someone, connecting with others, connecting with people, effective communication, how to improve communication, making connections, social connection, talk to strangers, talking to strangers

Friends, Un-friending and Blocking on Social Media

April 26, 2016 By Kim Cox

social media logo cloud

Where are you in your own understanding of yourself? Seeking to know by contrast (friends); questioning what you know or don’t know (un-friending); or do you think you have decided (blocking)? And if you think you have decided, how do you know you have made the right decision? All of this from a basic function […]

Filed Under: Self Realization Tagged With: blocking on social media, friending on social media, know yourself, self awareness, self awareness and social media, self realization, un-friending on social media, understanding yourself

Trusting Your Own Understanding and Moving Beyond

April 19, 2016 By Kim Cox

way out sign

Studying as an adult from a variety of people comes with a lot of invitations to attend all sorts of “high end” retreats promising all sorts of things, from personal growth, business growth, relaxation while working, being with like minded individuals, master minding together, healing, etc. We have been on a handful of retreats and […]

Filed Under: Inspiring Desires Tagged With: business growth retreats, healing retreats, high end retreats, inspiring desires, personal growth, personal growth retreats, relaxation retreats, self improvement, wellness retreat

Understanding Why We Need Contrast in Our Lives

April 12, 2016 By Kim Cox

painting black on white with paint roller

“Well you only need the light when it’s burning low Only miss the sun when it starts to snow Only know you love her when you let her go   Only know you’ve been high when you’re feeling low Only hate the road when you’re missing home Only know you love her when you let […]

Filed Under: Self Realization Tagged With: change your thinking, contrast, highs and lows, how to get unstuck, inspiring desires, let her go lyrics, love and fear, love vs fear, personal growth, self discovery, self healing, self improvement, self realization

Why Do I Put Pickles in a Bloody Mary? Because I Enjoy It

April 5, 2016 By Kim Cox

Bloody Mary with pickle and celery

I have studied under Jack Canfield and simply adore him and all the work he and his staff do. He often asks, “What is the WHY behind everything you do?” And for a long time, I had trouble with this question. I didn’t get it. You do things because they need to be done. I […]

Filed Under: Inspiring Desires Tagged With: finding your purpose in life, finding your why, inspiring desires, jack canfield, jack canfield quote, purpose in life, self discovery, self improvement, self realization, what's your why, your why

Dan and Kim Cox of Inspiring Desires: Our Story…

March 29, 2016 By Kim Cox

Kim and Dan Cox of Inspiring Desires

We met 23 years ago. I (Kim) had just opened my eyes to the reality that dating a gay guy probably wasn’t going to help me in my search for a relationship with a straight guy. A divorce and the seemingly unavoidable series of bad dates had left me enjoying the comfort of being with […]

Filed Under: Dan and Kim Cox Tagged With: change your thinking, dan and kim cox, dan cox, heal your relationship, healing relationships, how to get unstuck, inspiring desires, kim cox, marriage help, playing the manipulator, playing the rescuer, playing the victim, relationship advice, self discovery, self healing

Nouns or Verbs: Changing Limiting Beliefs and Expanding Possibilities

March 22, 2016 By Kim Cox

loveable dictionary definition

Which have you been labeled — introvert or extrovert? Are you truly shy and reticent OR outgoing and overtly expressive, at ALL times? I am fascinated by the word or. We commonly think of it as a limited choice between two things… hot or cold; inside or outside; today or tomorrow; boy or girl; happy […]

Filed Under: Self Improvement Tagged With: changing limiting beliefs, examples of limiting beliefs, expanding possibilities, inspiring desires, introvert or extrovert, introvert vs extrovert, limiting beliefs, limiting ourselves, nouns or verbs, overcoming limiting beliefs, personal development, personal growth, personal growth and development, self discovery, self identity, self improvement, self realization

My Selfish Reason for Wishing the Gay Community Didn’t Want Marriage Equality

March 15, 2016 By Kim Cox

waterfall with a rainbow

Don’t get me wrong, I am all for marriage equality and I am very happy when people achieve a goal they believe in and accomplish — woohoo!! Oh, and this has nothing to do with sexual preferences (to me, the gay community has far more depth than sexuality), so check your judgments at the door […]

Filed Under: Inspiring Desires, Self Realization Tagged With: inspiring desires, inspiring growth, marriage equality, personal development, personal growth, personal growth and development, self discovery, self healing, self improvement, self realization, vulnerability

Living and Healing with an Adult That Was an Abused Child

March 8, 2016 By Kim Cox

love in lights

It takes patience and kindness. You must be cautious of evoking envy, boasting or pride. You must guard yourself against their attempts to dishonor, make you appear self-seeking, angering you easily or keeping a record of your wrongs. You must stand strong in truth and deny evil. You must protect, trust, hope and persevere on […]

Filed Under: Healing Childhood Trauma Tagged With: abused as a child, abused child, adult survivors of child abuse, adult victims of child abuse, Bill Diesing poem, child abuse, child abuse healing, child abuse poem, child abuse poetry, child abuse recovery, child abuse stories, healing childhood trauma, the abused child poem

My Messy Belief Systems Melting Into My Marriage (and Life)

March 1, 2016 By Kim Cox

Florida sunset

I want to be honest here and let you know that whatever you think our lives look like on the outside, this is what it used to look like on the inside: Lots of sorted piles of contaminated, filthy laundry…AKA…belief systems!

Filed Under: How to Get Unstuck Tagged With: belief systems, change the way you think, change your thinking, getting unstuck, how to get unstuck, inspiring desires, mental cleansing, self discovery, self healing, shift in perspective

Assessment Tests: I’ve Tried Them All and the Verdict Is In

February 23, 2016 By Kim Cox

Hand completing a multiple choice exam

“What other people think of me is none of my business. One of the highest places you can get to is being independent of the good opinions of other people.” ~ Dr. Wayne Dyer Whether they are skills, career, personality type, strengths, weaknesses, favorite color, birth order…I encourage you to look at why you are […]

Filed Under: Self Realization Tagged With: aptitude test, assessment test, assessment tests, career assessment, career tests, online assessment tests, personality assessment, personality quiz, personality test, personality tests, skills assessment

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