We met 23 years ago. I (Kim) had just opened my eyes to the reality that dating a gay guy probably wasn’t going to help me in my search for a relationship with a straight guy. A divorce and the seemingly unavoidable series of bad dates had left me enjoying the comfort of being with […]
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Nouns or Verbs: Changing Limiting Beliefs and Expanding Possibilities
Which have you been labeled — introvert or extrovert? Are you truly shy and reticent OR outgoing and overtly expressive, at ALL times? I am fascinated by the word or. We commonly think of it as a limited choice between two things… hot or cold; inside or outside; today or tomorrow; boy or girl; happy […]
My Selfish Reason for Wishing the Gay Community Didn’t Want Marriage Equality
Don’t get me wrong, I am all for marriage equality and I am very happy when people achieve a goal they believe in and accomplish — woohoo!! Oh, and this has nothing to do with sexual preferences (to me, the gay community has far more depth than sexuality), so check your judgments at the door […]
My Messy Belief Systems Melting Into My Marriage (and Life)
I want to be honest here and let you know that whatever you think our lives look like on the outside, this is what it used to look like on the inside: Lots of sorted piles of contaminated, filthy laundry…AKA…belief systems!
My Concerns About Saying “I’m Sorry I…” (Part 2)
In My Concerns About Saying “I’m Sorry I…” (Part 1), you so graciously let me air my opinion about why we should be teaching children manners and how to function in society, instead of teaching them how to act anyway they want. And, if they are caught, to simply use their get out of jail […]