Listening is defined as making an effort to hear something or being alert and ready to hear something. Seems pretty simple, but why do so many people lack listening skills? One reason could be that everyone just wants to be heard, and therefore everyone is talking, so that leaves no one left to listen to […]
do not judge
An Experiment
I want to try something. I want to share something with you. My hypothesis is that by doing so, I will become exactly what I fear you think I am… an apathetic, indifferent, unkind, manipulative, misleading, emotionless, cowardice shell of a person, therefore limiting myself. In order to share this information, I need to let […]
The Simplicity of It All
Think about it, why do we make everything so damn complicated? And the answer is simple, we judge. As we use contrast to know ourselves as whole, we get stuck at judging that which we are not (and sometimes that which we are). We seem to have forgotten how to just be. To judge not. […]